Suicide Facts to Dispel Common Myths

It is no longer against the law in Canada to kill oneself. It is however, against the law to counsel or aid a person in suicide.

Persons who attempt suicide might eventually kill themselves. This might happen "accidentally" or through a determined effort to be successful.

Talking to a person about suicide will not encourage them to go through with it. Accepting their feelings of hopelessness will help them work through the crisis.

Family responsibilities do not prevent a suicide. The person may feel that anybody is better for the kids than they are.

The person who jokes about suicide might be deadly serious. It does no harm to check this out and let them know that you will listen to them.

Suicide does not "run" in families. However, the grieving period places a heavy burden on the survivors. It is not unusual for more than one person in a family to kill themselves.

Suicide is neither a rich man's disease nor a poor man's curse. It is common through all levels of society.

Stories of hundreds of genuine suicide notes indicate that although the suicidal person is extremely unhappy, they are not mentally ill. They may be apprehended under Section 24 or the Mental Health Act for their own protection. This will allow the police to transport the suicidal person against their will to medical facilities.

Improvement following a suicidal crisis does not mean the risk is over. Most suicides occur within about three months of such "improvement" - when the individual has the energy to put his morbid thoughts and feelings into action. It is necessary to be especially vigilant during this period.

Once a person is suicidal, they are not suicidal forever. Happily, individuals who want to kill themselves are "suicidal" for only a limited time. If saved from self destruction, they can go on to lead useful lives.

Remember: When giving help to others, it is important to get support for yourself.